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Don’t touch my headscarf.

Posted by: lubnaaa | July 7, 2009 |

That’s what it says on this poster in a pro-hijab campaign in Turkey.

I cannot believe this is still an issue in some countries, including Malaysia. Oh yes, I know all about certain establishments that refuse to accept candidates unless they remove their hijab.  It might not be a major political or legal issue here, but it happens, which is a sure-fire sign of inequality in job opportunities, and dare I say it, targeted discrimination. I fail to see how wearing a cloth around the head is a cause for concern, but bearing illegitimate children with a dozen different sex partners is a matter of personal choice. Long gone are the days when we had a common understanding on what modesty meant. That measuring bar disintegrated a long time ago, so why this furore over decency? Is there such a thing as dressing too modestly? Pardon me, I’ll be sure to show some skin next time for some ease on your eyes yeah, would that be all? And they say we’re the ones who’re oppressed!

Something’s happened in Egypt.

On July 1st, a German Christian lady was stabbed to death by an Arab man who was convicted of insulting her religion and racially slurring her. She was about to give testimony against him when he attacked her in front of her 3 year old son, and stabbed her 18 times. She was 4 months pregnant with her second child. Her husband tried to rescue her but in the ensuing scuffle was stabbed 3 times by the man and also accidentally shot by a security officer. All this happened in a courtroom, and her husband is now in a coma, said to be in critical condition.

It’s most likely you haven’t heard of this news, because there’s been almost zero coverage in the usually dominant media channels. A mention was perhaps the best report it received, which is a little curious, don’t you think? News like this is usually broadly telecast within moments of it happening, and then ’somehow’ spirals out of control, turning into another ‘Muslim terrorism’ story. So why has so little been said so far?

Answer: Her name was Marwa Sherbini, and she was in fact a 32 year old Egyptian Muslim woman living in Germany who was insulted by a German man because she wore the headscarf. She filed a case against him, won her suit and he appealed against the judgment. It was during the appeal proceedings in a German courtroom that he stabbed her to death.The muted response from the German government is drawing ire from the Arab region, and so far this despicable murder is being downplayed by both the authorities and the media. I’d like to point out the focus of CNN’s report on this hateful act - the headline “Egyptians angry over German court slaying says it all. We’re looking at the reaction to the crime, not the crime itself. It’s the same story all over again. Also, the blatant discrepancy in the coverage of Neda’s death in Iran and Marwa’s death kind of reeks of hypocrisy, don’t you think? It’s nothing new, really.

Do you see my point?

May Allah SWT bless both their souls.

Enough said here.

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To Allah we belong and to Him shall we return.

“And who does more wrong than the one who invents a lie against Allah, while he is being invited to Islam? And Allah guides not the people who are Zalimun folk. They intend to put out the Light of Allah with their mouths. But Allah will bring His Light to perfection even though the disbelievers hate (it).” Saff:7-8

I too found out about this news yesterday. And it’s not surprising that the only place I heard about it was from other people’s blogs. I actually thought I had my facts wrong when you began by stating it happened by an Arab in Egypt to a German Christian lady! (Kena tipu pulak.)

From that CNN report, to the people who are sad and outraged. I say, why do we need to mourn for her? I don’t fret at all about this seemingly tragic event. Rest assured, if the dead could speak, know that she is happy where she is. She would tell us not to worry, for she is only part of Allah’s greater plan. Looking at the bigger picture, these sort of people have become our heroes in this world and by Allah’s will, they will be among the shuhada in the next. I don’t see a reason to be angry. Allah’s Justice will win through, and on that day, we all will answer for what we do.

You might want to see this too:
http://english.aljazeera.net/news/middleeast/2009/05/2009514144415929204.html

I have personal experience in this issue.

I don’t know if I told you, but I’ve applied to a few jobs after my SPM, and one of the excuses they told me was “We don’t want girls wearing tudung, sorry” without even bothering to give me a chance.

I felt so inadequate at that time but it didn’t make me take it off. The boutique wasn’t even MNG or Zara or whatever, it was a shop selling clothes for career women. As if career women in Malaysia didn’t wear the scarf.

Till now I refused to step in that shop, though I would probably be able to afford the clothes once I start working.

I wish I can tell them, don’t look down on hijab wearing women, some of them are intelligent, humble, and full of dignity. We’re not perfect, but at the very least, we’re proud to tell the world we’re a Muslim woman by wearing the scarf.

Ugh that really depresses me. You know, I never knew about the Marwa case until I read your Twitter. Ugh.

Mardhiah, you should’ve spoke your mind to those bigots who turned you down. Makes me so angry. What shop was that anyway? Name them and shame them, cuz I want to boycott them too.

There’s so much wrong in this world. A few weeks ago Sarkozy was going on about how the burqa is not welcome in France because it’s oppressive, and banning it was being discussed. How stupid is that? Isn’t banning someone from wearing something they choose to wear a form of oppression itself? Stupid hypocrites.

Ugh ugh uuuugh!

Lutfi,
We mourn for her because even though her death has already been written in the luh mahfuz, it is HOW it came about that’s infuriating. It isn’t about Allah’s Plan, it’s about the problems we face as an ummah, the problems we face in disseminating the Message and how we’re to go about addressing these problems.

It isn’t easy when certain quarters are so bent on highlighting every negative thing they can about Muslims while murder such as this is hushed up. God help us all.

Mardy,
Tell me what shop, I’m going to do a social experiment and if they still practice that policy, I’m going to boycott them and inform all their target demography of their discrimination! Aisya’s right, name them and shame them!

Pai,
It IS depressing, but even more, it’s just infuriating! I hate how these sort label us as narrow-minded medieval people, and take pride in their whatever hedonistic state they’re living in. I remember reading this article where Yvonne Ridley scoffed when Afghanistan had its first scantily-clad woman crowned Miss Afghanistan and called that the beginning of woman liberty. Er, I think when you demean yourself that way by not respecting your body and exposing it for the world to see because that’s what the ‘modern’ society call ‘freedom’, that’s social pressure right there.

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