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Freefalling

Posted by: lubnaaa | January 27, 2009 |

Currently Playing: Bloc Party - Signs (from Maddie’s page, who still hasn’t written in ages. Come back soon, Maddie. Kamu dirindui.)

My sister passed along this video to me some time ago. It was featured on youtube, and you’ve probably already seen it:

“Why are you telling me this?”

“I just think we can skip through the awkward getting-to-know-each-other phase, where we lie to make each other happy, and get to the stage where we’re comfortable together.”

Huh.

And on I Wrote This For You tonight:

“I honestly couldn’t care less if you like the same bands or you’ve read the same books. Tell me one original thing, tell me one true, real thing that brings me to my f’ing knees that I’ve never heard before and I’m yours.

Which reminds me of February last year:

* I wish I could do that more, to just plunge into the deep end and ask people ‘hey, what’s your biggest fear?’

Is it bad that I prefer skipping trivialities but endure them anyway
because that’s the norm? Because I can’t break free, and as much as I’d love to ask “what’s your funniest memory?” the first time I meet a person, I’d be more likely to go with the customary “what course are you taking?” instead.

It’s just safer that way.

- When these circus lights go out, February 2008

* Build your fortress around you if you must, mine is already up
and standing, but we can still holler through our walls.

- One day, one room, February 2008

So who are we really, this generation of people yearning to find that spark, that one, genuine, out-of-this-world originality in the people we meet?

Maybe it’s because when there are no holds barred, there isn’t any need to please, and the fear of disappointing is no longer there..it’s a whole other experience worth reliving.

We are not here to keep you interested, but it sure is nice when you find us interesting anyway.

Enough said here.

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if there’s a favourite button for this entry, i’d immediately press it.

this entry is favourited. :)

“..skip through the awkward getting-to-know-each-other phase, where we lie to make each other happy, and get to the stage where we’re comfortable together..”

wow!

thats why people usually aren’t comfortable with each other when they’re already together coz the getting-to-know-each-other phase were full of lies to make each other happy. kan? sheesh..skip the getting-to-know-each-other phase!! hehe

saw the vid on your blog…..real nice. originality to me is being myself, no matter how people judge me.

i am who i am :D

Saw this vid on YouTube a while ago.

I dont know about the rest, but i find excitement in the getting to know each other part.

After you’re just comfortable.. it’s nice too, but you need to really know the other person to get to that stage, no?

I mean like, i know we’re not lovers, lubie.. but had i skipped the get to know you part, i wouldn’t hjave grown to love you this much ;-)
*HUGS*
=)

J, ;) This is our entry, really.

Aiman,
Wah, you actually made an appearance here! Hehe. Yes, we’re always bound by that need to say things that appease people to the point that sometimes we stretch the truth.
But really, I like skipping it not because people tend to do that. I skip sbb it’s always more interesting. :)

Ahmed,
Um, ok! :)

Puts,
“I know we’re not lovers”
Lol! But there’s plenty of love kan? ;) I don’t how to explain it, this taking-the-short-cut approach. I don’t expect it to happen with everyone, but when it does happen…it doesn’t make you feel so alone, because you get the feeling that there are others who want that originality too. And sometimes by taking the short-cut, you get to know whether the person is worth getting to know further. It’s like a 5 minute date. I know I’m making little sense, which is why I’m saving it for our meet. ;) Ps-We DID skip the getting-to-know each other part at the beginning. When we met, we didn’t know each other, but we had a common purpose - to put on that play. I didn’t know who you were, what you liked, what you feared, but I remember our practices, and I remember your impression of a jakun old man (lol) and I remember getting this really good positive vibe from you which has lasted til today.
After that, we hit it off. We never really had our formal introductions. :) Oh God, I’ve done it again. Written an essay in a comment box. :p

I think Lubna, you’re just one of those magic people that gives everything heart and soul, and there’s no helping anyone else who gets close to you. We all just fall right into your charm.

I know you probably think I am laying it all a bit thick, but it’s true! I haven’t met anyone quite as genuine as you. Heck, I haven’t even met you at all, but here I am… Proclaiming my adoration to you like the rest.

Saya rindu you too.

Madihah, I don’t know how to respond - your comment’s actually left me speechless and that’s a first! I’m terrible at taking compliments (though yours is more than a mere ‘compliment’. It’s something else.)

I’m going to take a friend’s advice, who tells me when people say nice things about me, just shut up, smile and say thank you for once.

So thank you. So much.
For the above, and for everything else. :)

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